Vagina Antic's Blog

Friday, May 19, 2017

  Dear Heather, I had two questions for you: How important is circumcision status of sexual partners to you when choosing an erotic and enjoying (pleasurable/enjoyable) sexual relations? In your personal life, do you prefer men to have been circumcised? Thanks for writing a great blog. I look forward to reading your reply. Sincerely, J.F…. READ MORE

Saturday, April 4, 2015

  Heather, You have written about the pain you enjoy during play. Can you talk about / share tips on how to expand one’s pain threshold? How to find that quiet inner place and stay there? Thanks! Rachel Dear Rachel, The good news is that our pain thresholds are completely subjective. This means that with… READ MORE

Wednesday, February 4, 2015

Hi Heather, I just wanted to thank you and Nikki for having such an amazing blog! I am just getting into the kink world and I don’t even know where to find people to fit in. Do you have any tips for someone who’s a timid person to break into the kink community? Thanks so… READ MORE

Friday, June 27, 2014
Thursday, January 23, 2014

Dear Heather: I’m a hetero poly male who is interested in dating a hetero poly female. She’s also in a D/s relationship with another guy. What the heck is up with D/s, and is it possible to make something work when I don’t want anything to do with that kind of thing? She’s awesome, but… READ MORE