Heather and Nikki bonded over their love of cursing, cheeseburgers and throwing pancakes at kids. As their relationship grew stronger and their marriages failed, their sexual awakening began. Supporting each other’s booze intake, cupcake consumption and one night stands, the BFF’s climbed out of the ashes of divorce and decided to write about their sexual evolution: the good, the bad, and the hysterical. It’s not all about naked baking, 80’s power ballads and Donut King, y’all. It’s about getting cum in your eye (AGAIN), needing a spa day for your vagina, and chemical burns on your lady bits. But more importantly, it’s about being sex positive and embracing yourself– kinks and all.
About Nikki Blue
A lot has changed since Vagina Antics was born. Nikki has embraced her shoe addiction, now prefers vodka over tequila, and has been dubbed an Internet Ninja. But perhaps the biggest change is that she no longer identifies as a submissive. With the encouragement of her wonderfully kinky play partner turned boyfriend, Mr. K, she found the freedom to explore and unleash her dominant nature.
Nikki still manages to dodge unwarranted restraining orders placed on her by the PTO, but has been busted more than once by the OCPD for driving her boy to school barefoot and braless.
When not writing for Vagina Antics, Nikki struggles with college math, avoids Walmart, and makes bad parenting choices while trying to build a career. She has been published in SexIs Magazine and thanks to her project ADD, she is writing a guide to group sex, CONTROL, the second book in her memoir-fiction-Young Adult-erotica-memoir-BDSM fiction-erotica-New Adult-memoir-Contemporary fiction-BDSM erotica, erm memoir series, and cataloging her shoes by heel height. She likes Facebook A LOT these days and still refuses to admit she watches The Real Housewives of Anywhere. She is known to have big hair, a filthy mouth, and terrible taste in movies.
It was their shared love of all things coffee and the desire to form a girl rock band called the Soulmateclones that made Nikki and Heather realize their friendship was something special. Since then, they’ve laughed, they’ve cried, and they’ve done things too naughty not to share.
*Naked hugs*
About Heather Cole
When Vagina Antics began in January 2012, Heather was newly divorced and a collared slave owned by her Dom, identified as M in her posts. She was also dating a Canadian in an open, polyamorous relationship. (I know. It’s so shocking. A Canadian!) She struggled to balance creating a new home and a new career while exploring what being kinky meant to her.
These days Heather is still exploring her bisexuality and kink, but her relationships have changed. She’s in a polyamorous relationship with LH, who is also her Dominant and owner. They are exploring their kinky community together, making new friends and going on kinky adventures that end up with Heather being paddled or naked and most likely both things at the same time.
If she’s not writing for Vagina Antics, Heather writes two columns for Fearless Press. A Kink in the Curves discusses body image and fashion, and At the Crossroads is a monthly column that explores the sensitive place where Catholicism and kink meet. She is also a published erotica author and enjoys collaborating with photographers for her book covers. She has been published in Safeword Magazine and is currently working on several other sex-positive collaborations. Heather’s pet project is an urban fantasy novel which is going very slowly because, you know, sex. On the days that she escapes the thrall of her computer, Heather sews, takes photographs, runs, and spends an inordinate amount of time in the kitchen. They don’t call it the hottest room in the house for nothin’.
All it took was Heather’s suggestion of a ‘mood cockring’ and Nikki’s endorsement of a bedazzled switchblade for the soulmateclone bond to form. Remember, they’re not professionals. They’re just vagina rockstars.
*Kisses and Spanks*
Love it!
I gotta have you on the show!!!
I think you have a lovely blog.
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This is a very ‘sticky’ site as the computer geeks like to say. Been here for ages and have had a fabulous read. I will come and come again sweeties.
Clamidia xx
Happy Anniversary
Do you have an email address?
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Fascinating stuff and lots of great writing here on this blog. I’m looking forward to reading more from you both. Since joining wordpress my eyes surely have been opened and it’s bloody great!
Keep up the great work.
KS
Hi there,
I have really enjoyed reading your blog, actually to the point that I started up my own as I’ve had a rather busy and varied sex life. I admit I’m new at this I would love if you would have a peek and let me know what you think. I have actually posted a link to your site on my front page. If you felt it was worthy of it I would be thrilled if you would link to mine as well.
Take care and hope to hear from you.
Katie
Thanks for the link, Katie! We’re happy that you’re enjoying our blog. I looked at your website and WOW! Beautiful and incredibly sexy. Good luck with your endeavors! ~Heather