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  1. Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2014

    December 22, 2014 by Heather Cole


    Every year those of us in the sex blogging community wait with joyful anticipation for Rori’s list of Top 100 Sex Bloggers over at Between My Sheets.  Making her list is the one of the best ways that we know to celebrate this holiday season. It’s a feather in our cap that our sex blogging contemporaries like us, and even more importantly, that our readers are enjoying our content as well. To our combined amazement (Nikki called me at 11:00 pm last night to tell me the news, and my first thought was that her vibrator had busted–you know, a real emergency) we not only made the list, but we scored in the top ten. Thank you from the bottom of our naughty, sexy hearts, Rori! We love all y’all. *boobsmoosh*

    Check out the other top contenders below, and see the full list at Between My Sheets:

    1. Girl on the Net
    2. JoEllen Notte, The Redhead Bedhead
    3. Erika Moen and Matthew Nolan, Oh Joy Sex Toy
    4. Nikki & Heather, Vagina Antics
    5. BD Swain, learning how to tell you
    6. Jillian Boyd, Lady Laid Bare
    7. Cheeky Minx, Love Hate Sex Cake
    8. Lilly, Dangerous Lilly
    9. Dr. NerdLove, Paging Dr. NerdLove
    10. Hyacinth Jones, A Dissolute Life Means

  2. Secret Lives Anthology is HOT! (off the press)

    October 31, 2014 by Heather Cole

    Recently I had the opportunity to write a short story for the anthology, SECRET LIVES, and I’m so proud of what we accomplished.

    Seven Sexy Stories of Supernatural Secrets

    Inside you’ll find 70,000 words of erotic paranormal romance featuring shifters, ghosts, vampires, aliens and all sorts of sexy creatures that like to go bump in the night.

    Tempted by Blood by Jacqueline Sweet—When the boy you love won’t give you what you need, maybe his evil twin will.

    Knights in White Bondage by A. Regina Cantatis—An enchanted thrall and her Mistress visit a fetish resort, where they fascinate their fellow guests and attract the attention of a would-be knight in shining armor.

    Forking Around by Audrey Lusk—When you see the world differently from everyone else, it takes something unseen to make it a less lonely place.

    Mrs. Wong’s by Troy King—Take one jaded fixer, one mysterious young woman, a dash of magick, add a seedy dive, and mix thoroughly.

    Spooked by Ruby Madden—When Clementine inherits an aging Victorian mansion from her late aunt, never did she suspect she’d uncover a mysterious secret about a lover from the past, brought to the present, in the form of a ghost.

    A Dangerous Seduction by Heather Cole—Soledad has everyone fooled that she’s an ordinary librarian until a mysterious shapeshifter makes her want to reveal more than just her true identity.

    Vixen by Christin Lovell—Plus size Jessickah Banderkoff is a bartender by day, a guardian to the Underworld’s Kingdom by evening, and the vampire king’s lover by night, but every good thing must come to an end, right?

    And it’s only $.99 on Kindle!


    My story introduces Soledad, a librarian with a dark past. All she wants is to blend with the supernatural community and succeed at her prestigious job at the first paranormal library in the United States. Fate has other ideas, and when she runs into (literally) a strange shapeshifter, Sole considers revealing everything.


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  3. Why You Should Vote for Sex

    October 14, 2014 by Heather Cole


    Everyone is talking about voting. The November elections are just around the corner, and we’ve been talking about the sex elections here as well. In short, you should vote for sex.


    You can vote for us at Kinkly:  Kinkly’s 2014 Sex Superheroes Contest

    You can nominate us at Between My Sheets:  2014 Top Sex Bloggers 2014


    So why should you take three minutes to vote or nominate Vagina Antics? It’s not like we can make birth control affordable and accessible to women everywhere… or can we? Part of what we strive to do on our blog is expose our readers to sex positive messages. Maybe you love reading about our adventures but wouldn’t do them yourself. That’s OK. We’re not here to convert you or say that we’re holier than thou sexually because we push sexual boundaries.  The point is that regardless of your sexual orientation, gender, or the sexual choices in your personal life, we want y’all to see the breadth of what’s out here. Acceptance and tolerance are direct results of education, and although we’re not formal educators, we try to present sex, kink, and relationships in a positive way. Voting for us is getting the word out, so that we can touch even more people. Um… wait… I mean expose ourselves to new friends. Hold on… that’s not quite right either.

    If you’ve already voted and shared our blog with someone, we thank you from the bottom or our dirty, little hearts. Hell, we thank you for clicking on our blog and reading every week. Without you, we’d be broadcasting Vagina Antics with only my mama reading. (and she tells me all the time that my language is shocking)

    A vote for Vagina Antics is a vote for sex and kink positivity. Damn, we need t-shirts.

    HUGS and *boob smooshes*


  4. I was pimped!

    September 26, 2014 by Heather Cole

    OK. Technically my book was, but still… something about the concept of my friends pimping me really appeals… Anyway, I digress!

    The beautiful and generous Kayla Lords featured me on her blog, A Sexual Being. She offered me the spot as soon as she heard that my latest book, SINS, had been released. Yes, there was some serious swooning on my part. Mostly because Kayla is kinky and AWESOME. She’s also one of the kindest sex bloggers/erotica authors you’ll see in these parts. AND (yes, capital letters are my friends) we get to feature her in October.  There is love, Vag readers. SO MUCH LOVE!

    Without further ado, check out Kayla and SINS. That’s right. Do it. (Y’all know you’re not working. It’s Friday, dammit.)


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  5. SINS: Come for the World

    September 13, 2014 by Heather Cole

    Sins FINAL Cover JPG


    The idea for this book came from a conversation with my sir. He said, “what if you wrote about a secret Catholic sect that worshipped through sex?” It was a concept I could relate to, not only because I was Catholic, but because I worshipped that man’s cock on a regular basis. I was intrigued after our brief conversation, and I began writing. Much of it went slowly as I searched for the right voice. Even though sir insisted that all it needed was “fucking and sucking” I made certain that it had plot and a heroine that I believed in. Who also loved fucking and sucking. The true fun of writing this was creating a character who was dominant, and boy howdy, does she dish out some punishment. Punishment with love, of course. *evil grin*

    SINS is available now at Amazon and will soon be all over the place.

    If you’re not hooked already, here’s an excerpt:

    Serah gently caressed the angle of his cheek. “I understand that this isn’t what you expected,
    but I can aid you in completing your journey. I’ll hear your confession and will help you find
    what you seek. Do you consent to this?”
    “Yes, Mother Priestess.” Rafael offered her a small smile as relief washed over his face.
    “Good. I’ll need a moment to prepare. Take this time to look inward. I’m reminded of a
    psalm: ‘Have mercy upon me, O God, according to thy loving kindness: according unto the
    multitude of thy tender mercies blot out my transgressions.’ And trust me, Rafael. I will render
    my tender mercies upon your fine flesh with respect and enthusiasm.” A slow grin curved her
    lips when she felt him shiver beneath her hands.
    “Yes, Mother Priestess.”


    So get on out of here and buy it. You won’t be disappointed.

    OH! Fair warning: if you believe religion shouldn’t go anywhere near the sexual realm, then this isn’t the book for you.



  6. Need more sex on the internet?

    February 12, 2014 by Heather Cole

    Of course you do!

    Kinkly is helping us find it. This week they unveiled their new Sex Blogger Directory that lists some of the best sex-positive content on the web. Vagina Antics is there too! Here’s the why of it in their own words:

    “Why We Built the Sex Blogger Directory”

    “It takes courage to be a sex blogger, and we think that should be celebrated, especially since it sometimes feels like the deck is stacked against the cool people who put it all out there in the name of promoting sex education, sex positive values and the pursuit of sexual pleasure.

    Case in point: In June 2013, (a property of Google) gave sex blogs mere days to purge their sites of ads that monetized “adult” content. The definition of adult was vague, which meant that established, well-loved sites that covered everything from romance book reviews to sex activism had to scramble to find a new host. Next, in July, Tumblr, a site known for its edgy content, removed adult blogs from its search, essentially making them impossible to find. We’ve seen it here at Kinkly too. Most major social media sites and search engines won’t let us advertise, and when our friends and fans tried to nominate us as a top site for women at, their positive comments and votes were erased.

    Sometimes it seems like sex, no matter how you tackle it, just isn’t welcome on the Web – or anywhere. So, we decided to do something about it by creating a friendly, welcoming space to highlight the best sex bloggers we could find. That led to a contest to find the Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheros of 2013. The response was overwhelming. We were on to something!

    There was just one problem though. The contest was based on the number of votes placed for blogs nominated on The reach just wasn’t big enough. Plus, we don’t just want to highlight the most popular blogs – we want to make a space for all of them! So, we set out to build a system that was both more quantitative and more inclusive.”

    Aren’t they just the dreamiest?

    So CLICK HERE and spread the sexy word, friends.

    You’re welcome.


  7. THE HUNT is now on Amazon

    January 3, 2014 by Heather Cole

    If you’ve read about the fall and spring Slave Hunts here on Vagina Antics, then you’re already familiar with some of the elements of my new erotic short story: THE HUNT. No, the story isn’t exactly what happened when I ran in the slave hunt (for one thing, there are no amazing cinnamon rolls.) BUT there’s sex, light bondage, spanking, and… oh yeah, hot hot sex.

    Here’s the blurb:

    “Every year the wealthy and mysterious Marcos Andreos opens his estate to an exclusive list of guests and hosts a Hunt. But For Marcos and his A-list friends, it’s not about a fox and some hounds. This Hunt involves willing men and women being hunted for their bounty which involves hot steamy sex among other pleasurable acts.

    Lilly Thomas has attended The Hunt for three years in a row. But this time it’s different. Marcos has marked her as his prey, and he’s determined to capture and keep her any way he can. Lilly doesn’t want to be an easy catch, but one look at the handsome playboy hunter and she decides that being Marcos’ prey for the night might actually be a good thing.”

    You can purchase it on Amazon!

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  8. Cunnilingus and Non-Monogamy

    November 9, 2013 by Heather Cole

    Nikki came through her surgery smoothly and is now resting at home and on a lot of drugs. I haven’t spoken to her yet which is why I’ve resorted to talking here. BECAUSE I NEED TO TALK TO SOMEONE ABOUT SEX.

    <Deep breath, Heather.>

    See, people?? This is why I should never be without my soulmateclone. Otherwise I end up abusing readers with stories about anal sex under hypnosis and posting too many Catsquatch photos on Facebook.

    The good news this week was that Curious Girl: A Female Guide to Cunnilingus got a sparkling review from Judi Reed at Distinctly Female. Her website is a wonderful font of feminism and sexuality and things that make you think. And it doesn’t hurt that Judi is hysterically funny.

    Today you can find me over at LTASEX talking about kink and poly and the boundaries that go with ethical, non-monogamous relationships. Jerome is a righteous dude who likes to talk about sex almost as much as I do. He has a wide range of sexual topics and some pretty, pretty photos. YUM!

    That’s the wrap-up for Vagina Antics this week. Nikki is recovering and texting me barely coherent messages, and I’m trying to amuse myself by talking about sex everywhere else.

    Hope your weekend is sexy too.

    *boob smoosh*



    September 2, 2013 by Heather Cole

    It’s that time of year for shameless self-promotion and on-my-knees begging. Oh wait… I do that all the time.


    That’s right! It’s time to vote for sweet Rori’s prestigious TOP 100 SEX BLOGGERS OF 2013 and we would love for Vagina Antics to make the list! In 2012 we set the list on fire at #26, a spectacular ranking for our first year. I’m still glowing. Would I be completely obnoxious if I said that I’d like to make the top ten? FINE! Call me Obnoxious Heather, and please vote.

    CLICK HERE to vote and instantly earn our eternal gratitude and admiration.

    *boob smoosh*


  10. Over at the Ladygarden…

    July 10, 2013 by Heather Cole

    The amazing Anna Sansom at the Ladygarden Project is talking about bicurious women on her post today, and she’s talking about my new guide on Amazon, CURIOUS GIRL: A Female Guide to Cunnilingus.

    CLICK HERE to read the latest on the Ladygarden Project.

    Thanks for your lovely words, Anna!

    *boob smoosh*